School Counsellor

We are delighted to introduce Kirsty Langley, Child Counsellor

It is a great pleasure to be the school counsellor here at St Hugh’s. School is such a big part of a child’s world, and when emotional challenges arise, they

can affect confidence, wellbeing and the ability to learn. It is my goal to offer support in a warm and safe environment where young people can explore their thoughts, feelings and worries.

I work in a creative and child-centred way, using mediums such as paint, clay and sand play. Children often communicate their inner world through play rather than words. The themes, stories and characters they choose can offer a metaphorical window into how they are experiencing life, without them needing to explain it directly. Rather than interpreting the play, I follow the child’s lead with curiosity, empathy and acceptance. This helps the child feel seen, understood and emotionally safe. 

When a child consistently experiences an adult understanding and responding to their emotional world in this way, they begin to develop greater awareness of their own feelings, begin to make sense of difficult experiences and find healthier ways of expressing themselves. Through individual counselling sessions, children can build resilience, manage anxiety, navigate relationships and conflicts, and build greater self- confidence.  This emotional growth often extends beyond the counselling room, positively influencing their relationships at home, school and within friendships. 

The idea of counselling can feel overwhelming and daunting. I like to think of it as a gift; the gift of time, space and understanding.  Providing young people with the opportunity to be heard and supported can have a lasting impact, equipping them with emotional skills and self-awareness that will benefit them well beyond their school years.